Way way back in the beginning of the year...
It was a seedy friday night at the main drinking sludgefest pub of the time. I was picked up by a girl and went home with her. I'm pretty backward when it comes to these sort of things - it was the first and only time I've ever gone home with somebody to their place before on the first meeting. When I got there I thought, Vic, is this really what you want to do? Shag a random person you don't know? In their house? So I said sorry, I don't want to do this. And went to sleep.
Only now do I hear rumour that people were told that I passed out. Not that I said no thankyou.
Is this the lesbian equivalent to girls saying that the guy they picked up couldn't get it up?
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You SO have to get out of Small Town, Vic.
To answer your question this is not the “lesbian equivalent to girls saying that the guy they picked up couldn't get it up?” Given your self admissions, you did in fact go to sleep, therefore you did pass out. Where is your problem with the rumor? Is it because the finer detail was omitted? If this truly was a random stranger, then what does it matter anyway?
If you were going to compare this to a “hetro” encounter, you saying no and staying, would give you a label as a prick tease. No one can fault you on saying no but it did sound as if you gave the impression that something was going to happen and didn’t deliver when it came to the crunch. To add insult to injury you didn’t leave but opted to stay while the other person’s desire levels were still high. If you put yourself in the other persons shoe’s for a second, then this may be the way she is coping with you rejecting her, which is what you did.
To explain your question, there here are the standard reasons a woman would give that insult:
1) To justify sleeping with someone and regretting it
2) that they guy did in fact have erectile dysfunction
3) to cover up that she had been rejected by the guy and that he said no, which does happen
In such cases there is an unwritten protocol that is you are not going to play then you are not going to stay. By staying you have only given the other person the hope that you may change your mind. If you were in fact seedy, then you had the presence of mind to know this is not for you, therefore you should have had the motor function to call a cab.
Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned by a pixie...
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